Today is my mom’s birthday. It is the perfect day for me to reflect on all of the blessings she has shared with me. We have shared joys, laughs and sorrow. She has been there to hold my hand or give me words of encouragement in the face of some very challenging times. I never envisioned the pain we would share or how we would grow closer because of it.
My mom has a distinctive laugh one I think I may have inherited. I love to hear my mom laugh. Those times when she laughed so hard tears were streaming down her face. I have this picture etched in my mind. It always produces a smile.
I talk to my mom almost daily. The talks can range from topics of kids to religion and everything in between. I haven’t lived close to home since I graduated high school. The separation of miles has not deterred our ability to remain close. I am so grateful for this.
I remember when I was younger hearing “just wait until you have kids of your own.” Am I the only one who heard that from their mother? I am indeed a mother and have grown in understanding what was meant by this phrase. However my mom omitted one little detail….things get magnified through the generations.
As I celebrate My Mom’s Birthday, I celebrate love and caring. I have been blessed to have a rich and rewarding relationship with my mom. Mom’s are special.
Mom I am sending you sunshine and visions of banana cream pie on your special day.
It gives us just enough time to unwind and laugh. I did a lot of laughing this past Labor Day weekend. All of our kids met us at the lake and they all brought friends. It is amazing to watch them grow and develop in to adults. We had a small army for the weekend.
These young adults form unique opinions on everything from politics to parenthood. They aren’t afraid to express themselves either. I had to cover my mouth and resist laughing on many occasions. Life is indeed an adventure.
We also played games. This proved to be most interesting. The competitive spirit came out in everyone.
I am also proud to tell you we all survived and laughed – a bunch.
The weather was cool and the smell of autumn was in the air. It was a terrific weekend. It also stirred gratitude in regards to family, friends and the blessings of a good laugh.
There is not a better stress-buster – laughter is fantastic.
Recently actor Henry Winkler was interviewed about Tenacity and Gratitude. In this interview he said: “As virtues, tenacity and gratitude are nice to have; as behaviors they are a strong combination found in many successful individuals.”
It is my wish that everyone I was blessed to spend time with during the weekend understands the virtues of tenacity and gratitude. May the memories created during the long weekend sustain the laughter and the smiles we shared.
I began painting months ago and I have found it to be exactly the outlet I have been looking for.
I am able to express feelings, concepts and expressions through acrylic.
Do you have such an outlet? When you tap in to this area of your mind and soul a new energy emerges. It is an activity I embrace with amazing enthusiasm. Each canvass encompasses a new adventure. You start thinking you know the destination and when you realize the final destination is something different a wave of “WOW” takes over. It is a beautiful moment.
I am grateful for this gift and hope it is a blessing to others.
I am referring to the ritual of going through drawers and closets and getting rid of anything you haven’t used in the last year. Have you done this within the last year? By the looks of my drawers and closets – I am overdue to clean….by a long shot.
I am preparing for graduation and the visit of many loved ones. I look forward to hosting this event. It is times like these that help us all to reflect, celebrate and yes….clean! I have been sorting, painting and organizing for a couple of weeks. Perhaps you are also going through this exercise this spring? It is a lot of work however it has hidden rewards.
There is something therapeutic about sorting through items and taking the trip down memory lane. I have many items that I look at and I can remember the event or circumstance associated with it. Some of these memories bring smiles, others bring tears and the ultimate response tends to be – “wow, I didn’t know I still had this.” Then the rush of relief and familiarity washes through my mind as I celebrate the “stuff.”
Spring cleaning and clearing is a great time to reflect and prepare for a new season! I am grateful for all of the memories and look forward to many more. Congratulations to the class of 2010.
What an interesting celebration. Isn’t everyday mother’s day? Doesn’t it apply to both men and women? The nurturing safety of a hug or a kind word when you need it most? I do realize men are at a disadvantage in that they cannot give birth however there is much mothering to be done after birth.
I spent my mother’s day trying to help coordinate an hour visit with a very dear friend and her daughter in our local airport. If you have seen “Up In The Air” you know the one. My friend’s daughter left for work in January and the 2 of them have been apart for the last 5 months….a VERY long time. Our daughter’s are best friends which makes this story even sweeter.
I was honored to help connect mother and daughter. However, we had company….dad, sister and other friends. It was a fast meeting and the entourage in the airport was entertaining.
I think about all of the families separated from loved one’s during Mother’s Day and other holidays. The space leaves an empty spot that can only be filled with love. The love of friends, family and those closest to us.
I hope you had a wonderful weekend, a joyous Mother’s Day and most of all – I hope you remember to love and be thankful for the love of other.
My gratitude has evolved in to tears lately. I wonder how many other people may be taking the same journey with me this year?
You see, my youngest graduates high school next month and I officially join the club affectionately called the “empty nesters.” I have found myself reflecting quite a bit lately and the tears have flowed freely. I look back on major events and not so major events in the lives of my kids and the memories warm my heart.
You know the ones, the first day of school, the bout of chicken pox over Christmas break, beautiful crayon artwork for the refrigerator and so much more. As the cliché says; time flies.
It certainly has flown.
I have traded the worries of childhood boo-boos for the worries of young adults. What will the future bring for them as adults? Have I planted enough seeds of faith in them to sustain them for the challenges ahead? Isn’t this the mantra of parenthood?
As we make final plans for graduation I will continue to embrace the memories and remain hopeful in their future. If you look in the eyes of a graduate you can see the spirit that has made our country great. The spirit that drives innovation. The spirit to succeed, make a change and develop a new frontier.